"Hi Mom!" She actually sounded genuinely happy to hear my voice.
"Kidlet! How ARE you?" my enthusiasm blurting through the lines.
And for the next fifteen minutes I got the answer. She talked excitedly, rapidly, trying to squeeze as many words per second as possible into the call. She has made cool friends; she likes everyone in her dorm; she misses her sweetheart I sensed a gulp and a tear here; she loves her classes imitated the guttural noises she is supposed to practice for her German classes; she only got lost once; the food is delicious and HER ROOM IS CLEAN that may be subject to inspection. Will miracles never cease???
I felt a pang ... homesickness, excitement, and pride all rolled into one fat lump in my throat. As the pace of the conversation quickened I realized she was expected somewhere and had to wind down the call. We said our goodbyes hastily however I sensed our mutual satisfaction with our exchange. My Kidlet sounded more mature and a new confidence strengthened her voice.
It may be time for Kidlet to give way to Womlet. We'll see... All I know is that tonight I am going to sleep a little sounder. Nite Kidlet - sweet dreams.
Hi Lyn, thank you for visiting! wishing a quick adaptation to the new situation, hope your daughter will be happy :-) and you can feel at peace with her being away ... You have got a wonderful blog about Africa, something I'm going to explore more later on!! So looking forward to it :-)
ReplyDeleteHi Birdie,
ReplyDeleteThe Africa Calling blog is incomplete still - I have many more accounts and photos of our trip to post and I suppose with my semi-retirement from parenting, I should have the time! Thanks for dropping by.
Hi Lyn,
ReplyDeleteit was so nice to read of your lake vacation, it sounds perfect to me!
and oh how i can relate to this post here, although my childs experiance is much different, the feelings are the same. Worry! and letting go...
Hi Lyn,
ReplyDeleteIt's been a little while since I made my way over to your corner of the world and I thought I'd come pay a visit! This post made me remember the day 9 years ago that I moved to college and had to say goodbye to my mom and I can definitely relate to some of the feelings you were having! So glad to hear that she's doing well and that you're adjusting well too. :)