He's a big guy, my Dad - actually he is larger than life. And I don't think he would mind me saying that today he is turning 73. I'm one of the lucky ones. Not only do I still have my Dad with me, I have a remarkable man for a father, who is the epicentre and heartbeat of our family. I have written alot about his abilities and achievements but with each passing year, it is our relationship that I have come to cherish more than ever.
After my mom passed on, my dad became more to me than someone to admire or to turn to for advice; we forged a kinship of sorts born from hours of conversation, shared grief and living under the same roof - a kinship rooted in authenticity. We discussed our ideas, argued politics and philosophical ideologies and explored the meaning of life. He became my trusted confidante.
So on his birthday I want to thank him for his greatest gift to me ... being a shining example of how to live:
- to live each day fully, heart and soul;
- to be a giver not a taker;
- to care - and make a difference;
- to be a loyal friend;
- to dream;
- to be a life long learner;
- to see wonder and joy in nature and the extraordinary in the ordinary.
- to multiply the richness of experience by sharing them with someone you love.
So you guessed it ... he is my super hero - my Dad. Happy Birthday Pops.
You can read more about my dad. (really - he's super cool).
Note: This picture was taken outside his cabin on the tundra when he lived in the high Arctic a few years back. Adventure Man.
I'm guessing he would write close to the same words about you. <3. Such a lovely sentiment. I think when dads and daughters are close, it bridges a lot of rough waters and makes life shinier. My dad has certainly done that for me.
ReplyDeleteHow lovely he is! What a tribute!
ReplyDeleteYou are lucky Lyn. Happy Birthday to your Dad, may he have many more!
ReplyDeleteAnd I agree with Smarts first sentence.
You are very special too.